Eden&Elle Magazine November 2008 - Page 1 - Contents 3 4 6 8 10 12 14 24 28 31 35 37 38 Editors letter Ekaterina – Worldly woman Debra – Woman of loving Prosperity Monthly Interview – Sheri Winston Erotic Joy of the Month Tips for an even more beautiful you 97% Model of the Month – Louella! Ward & Ekaterina – Write Opposites Steve – Coaching Life The Monthly Alternative Poetic thoughts and feelings of Readers Noticeboard The 5 most important words in your life Editors letter Dear Gals & Pals, A warm welcome to the November issue of Eden & Elle, the magazine which combines eye opening, true to the heart articles with timely information on a multitude of subjects, a revealing and in depth interview and features the 'everyday' woman – women of all shapes, size and ages in a photo shoot showing that they can look just as beautiful posing for a glamour photographer as the latest centerfold. With the leaves starting to fall, Autumn setting in (at least in most parts of the world) and daylight hours becoming shorter, what better way to enjoy the chilly evenings than to read your favorite online magazine! With each issue we are welcoming more and more new readers and Eden & Elles’ primary intention is happily catching the attention of many around the globe. In this issue we have a new writer namely Ward de Craene. Once in a while Ward and Ekaterina, his ‘Write Opposite’, will be sharing titillating articles where they both write down their side of the story so to speak, each drawing the reader to their side and bestowing upon you the knowledge that nothing is actually ever quite like it seems. Our interview is somewhat different this month. Sheri Winston, an amazing woman with a sensual heart of gold whose Center for the Intimate Arts in New York gives people the opportunity to learn about sexuality in an eye opening and wonderfully fun way, shares with us her life & work story. We were so enthralled with what Sheri was telling us, time went by so fast that we ended up with quite a lengthy interview! Since we wanted to give our readers the full benefits of what Sheri shared with us, instead of dividing the interview up into two different issues we decided to publish a link so you now have an audio interview which you can download in mp3 format. When it comes to our monthly writers, Debra enlightens us with great clarity on choice, Steve shares a sensual Tantra experience and Ekaterina gives us a new perspective to how we date. The Monthly Alternative show us possible reasons concerning our core beliefs and The Erotic Joy of the Month goes solo this month. The noticeboard has some great questions and comments this month, while the featured poems in the poetic thoughts & feeling of readers touch a nerve or two. Our 97% Model of the Month is Louella. She personifies everything that Eden & Elle magazine wants women to feel about themselves, a gorgeous, self confident, out going woman who may not be a professional model, but sure looks like one in the photos! So ladies, if there was ever a doubt in your mind that you don’t have what it takes to be featured in Eden & Elle magazine, let some of Louella rub off on you, flaunt what you’ve got and be darn proud of it! As always, I trust you will enjoy reading this issue as much as I have enjoyed making it. Enjoy! Yours warmly, Désirée Deul Chief Editor Ekaterina – Worldly Woman Coming from Russia Ekaterina lived in 4 different countries and speaks 4 different languages. She worked as a financial analyst of banks and as a headhunter and currently is writing a PhD thesis in the UK. In her spare time Ekaterina writes, dances, reads Tarot cards and studies shamanism, tantra and magic. She has her own blog, well worth reading: http://otterwisdom.blogspot.com Is there a secret for a successful dating? From my own experience I know: once I really like a guy, I forget all rules to a successful dating. There are some basic tips to follow if you want to keep the guy interested. 1. Pretend that you are a busy woman. Nothing is more challenging to a guy than a lady, which prefers to write a thesis in the evening rather than to meet him. Obviously, don’t keep writing the thesis for several weeks in a row, otherwise, you risk losing the guy. 2. Don’t call the man in which you are interested in the beginning of a relationship, and most importantly, don’t wait for his call. The fact that you have your own life with an important schedule is usually quite attractive to the opposite sex. 3. Don’t act, try to be natural and don’t lie about your eating and smoking preferences. Apart from if you plan to stop smoking in the near future, it won’t be very pleasant for a guy you like to discover that you are chain smoker a few days after you swore to be an addict of a healthy leaving. 4. Don’t start conversations about kids and marriage. Nothing is more discoursing for a guy than to hear that you plan to have two kids in the following two years. 5. Even if honesty is welcome in any relationship, some mystery is a necessary attribute to any woman. Don’t rush to admit that you didn’t have sex for the last nine months, are desperate to create a family and never lasted in any relationship for more than two months. 6. Don’t look at the guy with an absolutely devoting expression and say that you are falling in love right now on the first date. I can go on and on. Tips and advice on successful dating will soon become a separate subject in academic circles, so many are of them. There are books, articles and internet sites especially dedicated to the subject. However, my question is: do these tips really work in reality? And well, my rather sad love-relationship luggage rather shows that all recommendations to successful dating work in the case…you are not in love. Actually you follow them rather naturally once you meet a guy who is interested in you but to which you are only slightly attracted. In this situation I do prefer to write a thesis in the evening, am always busy, never lie about my smoking behaviour and never wait for his call. In this case a successful strategy in seducing the guy is a piece of cake. My example and example of many other women are rather different from making a strategy (and thus, following the advice). I can date only when I am in love. But once you are in love, you forget all the rules. You want to look better, smarter and cooler. You are always free to meet, call yourself to fix a date, wait for his call and forget all about writing a thesis. In this situation there can be only two outcomes: either you do scare the guy or you create a loving relationship, - in case both of you are madly in love. In here comes my conclusion. Tips for successful dating are just a trap. What really works are tips for a successful loving relationship, which can only work…if you forget the rules. When two persons are in love they create their own unique rules. Ekaterina can be reached at thoughts@edenandelle.com Debra – Woman of loving Prosperity Debra Schneider is a single mom with prosperity consciousness, is old enough to have wisdom and young and healthy enough to enjoy it. After having travelled extensively through Europe and The States, she now resides in New York State together with her daughter. Life is good...At the moment As I sit here to write an article for the Eden&Elle November issue I check out my state... School has been called off because we had a power outage last night into early this morning. I was up at 5:30 checking to see if school was happening but there was no answer on their machine. I called the Police to see why we still did not have power, apparently the whole electric company staff was combing the woods to find out why over 100,000 people had no power. It was then I realized how fragile and precarious our status quo (or using my daughter's favorite word of the moment, homeostasis) is. It was 20 degrees outside and we had no heat. I could not cook warm food or even boil water. So we did what most people did before the advent of electricity, we went to bed early. I slept well and I was not concerned that we would never be warm again. I knew the power would go back on. Except for the brief moment of panic when I recalled all the apocalyptical movies I had seen and I allowed my mind one brief second of wild freak out....I even got the old heart racing a bit. But then I stopped. I did not freak out. I trusted. I did not let fear grab me by the psychological balls. I stopped and said these words. What is true at this moment. That might not seem like such a big deal, but if you are like me and you spend a lot of time creating a reality that you have no desire to live in, then you would know that it is a big deal. It is rare that my reality is in fact anything but very cushy. I leave my thermostat set very low in the winter by choice. I eat apples and cheese for dinner by choice. My life is full of choices. The biggest and most important choice however I too often don't make. The choice to be content. The choice to see what is, not what my mind conjures up to put me in a state of consternation. I am getting clearer and clearer all the time that this state of content (which is tantamount to happy in my book) is a choice….nothing more or less. And it is a habit...Now that is the challenge. But I am taking this challenge. I have decided to leave the goal of enlightenment to another life. I will eagerly choose 24/7 content. Hugs, Debra Debra can be reached via thoughts@edenandelle.com November Interview Eden&Elle magazine would like to introduce you to a wonderful, warm-hearted and scrumptious lady called Sheri Winston. Sheri is a midwife nurse educator, counselor and an author whose intention it is to change our culture's attitudes about sex. Her Center for the Intimate Arts in New York where she offers a series of wholistic sexuality classes for both men and women as well as relationship skills classes and intensives and retreats are in high demand which just goes to show that we as humans are yearning to go back to the essence of life, namely love. Sheri Winston The interview was so profound and Sheri talks with such passion and in great length about her life and her work that the interview lasted far longer than we had expected. As we listened to this marvelous woman talking we knew that there was no way we could ever publish only part of what Sheri had told us. The only way we felt would do justice to the interview was to provide our readers with an audio link so that you can listen to the entire interview at your own leisure. We are sure that you will enjoy it and learn from it just as much as we did and we would again like to thank Sheri for taking the time to talk with us. http://www7.zippyshare.com/v/79583255/file.html When you click on the above link you will be taken to a webpage from zippyshare. (See below for screenshot) To the right of the image you will see a section where it is written ‘You have requested the file’ named ‘sheriwinit.mp3 . Just click on the download link, click save as, and enjoy! We encourage you to visit Sheri Winstons website : www.IntimateArtsCenter.com where you will find a vast amount of information concerning classes, teleseminars, educational products and an informational packed library for you. Erotic Joy of the Month Female masturbation is an awesome creation for self-exploration. In other words, in my opinion, masturbation is the best, the quickest, the easiest way for a woman to make friends with her pussy and please her wildest appetites. So the best, the quickest, the easiest female masturbation tips and techniques are described below by a female masturbationexpert, namely by me. Dear men, sit down, now... It would be interesting for you to learn them too, since almost all of the masturbation tips and techniques can be perfectly done by you on your women. C’mon, don’t you want to give her an orgasm at the drop of a hat? Women-proved, hand-proved, time-proved, finger-proved, and, at last, proved by pussy, these marvelous keys to the doors of female masturbation and, eventually, to better sex life - are up. First off, there are many female masturbation techniques and they all are intended to stimulate the magic g-spot area and, of course, the King of female orgasms, the clit. Generally, female masturbation techniques fall into two types of g-spot and clitoral stimulation as: direct and indirect masturbation. Direct female masturbation type covers finger masturbation technique, water masturbation technique, sex toy masturbation. Indirect female masturbation type covers mind-body or fantasy masturbation technique, thing between the legs (pillow, stuffed toy) masturbation, squeezing hips masturbation. Now close the doors, get comfortable, read it carefully and have your pants and panties ready for juice waterfall in anticipation of the coming night and day when you test out things which you’ve not tried before. Female finger masturbation technique includes delicious gentle and moderately rough finger rubbing, slow finger rolling, playful finger “typing” or tapping, and, of course, ardently desirable finger penetration… Although each one is influenced by variety of personal preferences, but it is better to start with tapping masturbation, then rolling, then rubbing, then… penetrating. Pull your beautiful pussy lips apart to get your clit shamelessly “naked”. Once the clitoris is exposed gently tap it with your index finger and try to “beat out” some rhythm that feels good for you. Then place your thumb and your index finger on the clitoris and roll the clitoris between your fingers squeezing it now and then. When things go hard... Wet your fingers and go on with rubbing and pressing your clit, while keep on doing this, use the other hand to mercilessly stroke and penetrate your hotness! I guarantee you a real orgasm. Female water masturbation technique. Umm, believe me that shower masturbation is not a myth. Water stream can work wonders with you. Direct the water straight to your pretty clit, and use head quite closer to it. What also feels crazy is when you position yourself under the running faucet with your legs spread wide. Get lost in pleasure and don’t forget about changing water force and waterproof sex toys. Sex toy masturbation. Women sex toys are fantastic by their vibrating, rotating and multispeed functions. Three types of female sex toys provide me with amazing quality masturbation service: famous rabbit vibrators, g-spot vibrators, and clitoral stimulators. Clitoral massagers also work great and lead to the point of orgasm. My personal suggestion here is vibrating lipstick massager. This sex toy was momentarily proved by my womanhood. Fantasy female masturbation. This is a technique when orgasm is achieved with fantasizing only. It comes from Tantric sex, as I know, and to develop this orgasm skill a woman should learn how to control her body by her mind. Well, yes, I personally once managed to orgasm without touching myself and being touched. My man was away for some days and I was using his car. Sitting there I got his smell and music, so it all triggered my imagination and built up a sweet orgasm. Stuffed between legs masturbation. The things that really work are pillows and stuffed toys. Pillow masturbation goes affective for those women who have a highly sensitive clit, so that it responses to pillow pressure. Make a hard knot and enjoy the ride. Squeezing thighs masturbation. Some women can achieve orgasm by simply squeezing hips tight against each other making by that an indirect stimulation of the clit. In the gripe of the hips clit’s the only salvation is orgasm. I personally can’t cum this way. But it was once when having no panties under my long silk dress I got the thrill just from feeling my naked legs and provocatively “free” pussy. I was hardly eating my meal squeezing my thighs to death, trying to press my clit by inner thigh muscles. So it all ended in the bathroom of a restaurant and a little spot on the dress (long story). As with anything else, some things go for some people and don’t go for others, whatever the case, any of the above masturbation techniques feel great if your pussy and clit are perfectly lubricated with your own juices or special lubricants. Don’t forget about your nipples and pretty ass to add an extra buzz to your masturbation..! Female masturbation is an awesome creation for body celebration! Written by Nellioness. For more of her work please visit http://nellioness.blogspot.com/
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