Eden & Elle Magazine December 2008 - Page 1 - Contents 3 4 6 8 10 12 14 23 28 32 34 36 Editors letter Ekaterina – Worldly woman Debra – Woman of loving Prosperity Monthly Interview –Lydia Proschinger, Life Coach Erotic Joy of the Month Tips for an even more beautiful you 97% Model of the Month – Tamara! Steve – Coaching Life The Monthly Alternative Poetic Thoughts & Feelings Noticeboard The five most important words in your life Editors letter Dear Gals & Pals, Welcome to the final 2008 issue of Eden & Elle, the magazine which combines eye opening, true to the heart articles with timely information on a multitude of subjects, a revealing and in depth interview and features the 'everyday' woman – women of all shapes, size and ages in a photo shoot showing that they can look just as beautiful posing for a glamour photographer as the latest centerfold. The first snow has already fallen and the beauty of the white blanket has given way to icy roads and dangerous sidewalks, a signal to perhaps remain indoors until the spring sets is. Still, no fret, with the enticing articles and hot photos I have in store for you, I doubt you will want to go anywhere anytime soon! I am delighted to have Steve sharing his experiences (and his soulmate) together with us this month, showing us all that the law of attraction really does work, who knows, this maybe the start of another writing collaboration! Debra gives us a new and different perspective on positive thinking, one we feel is definitely worth reading about. Ekaterina shares with us her views on how to get rich and her writing partner in crime, Ward de Craene has told us that he may be writing solo for us in the January issue, so look out for that! Our 97% Model of the Month is Tamara. Now this young lady may be younger than most of our previous models, when it comes to posing in front of the camera, she definitely has set a trend. No longer can the younger generation say that they have nothing to look forward to or feel lousy about themselves, all they have to do is read what Tamara says and look at her stunning photos to realize there is a bright, exciting future ahead for every one of them, if they just give themselves the chance. The december interview is total bliss. Lydia Proschinger is not just any life coach, she genuinely cares for her clients and you can feel her energy vibrating towards you. The interview is prfound and I wanted you to take full advantage of what Lydia has to say, so again a download link has been published for you to download the audio interview in mp3 format. Congratulations to T. Marlene, winner of the Ms. BBW MySpace 2008 contest, she wil be featured in our very first issue of 2009. For the poetic thoughts and feelings, Jon Crawford has kindly written two different poems for you to enjoy and the noticeboard is well worth a read this festive month, when the feelings of love and laughter should be a right for everyone in the world. For those of you who love the food associated with this season, but not the weight you may gain, the Erotic Joy of the Month has something in store for you……. As always, I trust you will enjoy reading this issue as much as I have enjoyed making it. Enjoy! Yours warmly, Désirée Deul Chief Editor Ekaterina – Worldly Woman Coming from Russia, Ekaterina lived in 4 different countries and speaks 4 different languages. She worked as a financial analyst of banks and as a headhunter and currently is writing a PhD thesis in the UK. In her spare time Ekaterina writes, dances, reads Tarot cards and studies shamanism, tantra and magic. She has her own blog, well worth reading: http://otterwisdom.blogspot.com How to become rich..... The other day I received the blog update from Desiree, chief editor of Eden&Elle Magazine. She was mostly talking about her experience with the science of getting rich and affiliated network. She also provided a link to a book, called ‘The Science of getting rich.” Usually I avoid such kind of things, I’ve been there before: I watched the Secret, took part in many seminars and even drew a shamanic wheel on my wall with all the things I want to be manifested in my life. And believe me, as many times as I tried to repeat: I want to be a millionaire, I am still far from it. However, this time something triggered my curiosity, mostly the humoristic way Desiree was talking about her own experience and I downloaded the book. Maybe because just the previous day I was repeating to myself that I am a total failure, - single at thirty-two, absolutely not rich and dwelling upon my book, which I absolutely want to publish for four years in a row, I told myself, - why not to try something new? I read the book in the same evening. The idea of the book is pretty much the same as what is said and repeated in all other possible and impossible doctrines, seminars and books. Thought is creative. What you think will manifest in your life. Since we are unaware about the majority of our subconscious thoughts, we often miss dark heavy clouds above our heads (our thoughts), which are flying on top of us and tell us that we are fat, unloved, not talented enough and don’t deserve to be happy. Once we master our own thoughts we can programme them to be positive. The book maybe didn’t teach me anything new but nevertheless, it made me to stop for a minute and reconsider what I really want. It also made me to reconsider my life in a positive way. Maybe I am not that rich, but I have many opportunities, I can afford many things and I have to admit: I am not interested in becoming too rich. Just the administrative nightmare of dealing with a lot of money stops me for a second and gives me a thought: what would I do with all this money? And this is perhaps why so many people are actually not wanting to become rich. I was always amazed by the talks of gurus about the science of getting rich, like it’s the only and the real happy thing each individual should strive to. But is it really so? I have a lot of friends who are really not interested in money, and still they do look happy to me. In my own life one of my happiest moments in life was when I was absolutely poor in Russia in the middle of nineties, but totally in love with other things, - anything but money. And isn’t there actually a real danger in the fact that everything is based on the value of money nowadays? Personally I believe that each individual gets exactly what he or she needs at any given time. I am not a millionaire but I am very lucky in other domains: I have amazing friends, I have a PhD scholarship to study a very interesting theme, I have healthy parents and the possibility to travel around the world. And if I am not yet a millionaire, maybe it’s because I am not yet ready? How many celebrities and other people got totally unhappy after becoming rich and famous in one day just because they were not ready for such a responsibility? Money and even more so, - fame, bring along many other problems, and that’s why it’s always good to stop and ask the following question: why and to what extent do I want to be rich or famous? True happiness is when you do what you really enjoy doing, are paid enough for it and have love in your life. Therefore, after having read ‘The Science of Getting Rich’, I made myself the following promise: I want to be rich enough not to spend an entire evening on a book called ‘The Science of Getting Rich’ and feel miserable afterwards because of my thought pattern. Why no one has yet written a book about how to avoid being obsessed with money and feel happy because of the lack of it? Ekaterina can be reached at thoughts@edenandelle.com Debra – Woman of loving Prosperity Debra Schneider is a single mom with prosperity consciousness, is old enough to have wisdom and young and healthy enough to enjoy it. After having travelled extensively through Europe and The States, she now resides in New York State together with her daughter. What do you believe ? When I climb the mountain near my home in Woodstock, the mountain often becomes a metaphor. For instance, the more often I use the muscles needed to walk the steep 2 1/2 miles, the easier it becomes. Also, the different seasons bring me different pleasures and hardships. On a morning like today when the temp is way below freezing it is a huge challenge to get out of my warm house. It takes a lot of effort to hike up a slippery slope. But without the leaves on the trees I can see hundreds of miles to the distant Adirondacks, and the sun is not blocked by the leaves so I feel it's warmth. When I was hiking with my friend Judy yesterday we had one of our many uplifting conversations. We love to practice turning challenges into wisdom. At some point the words "What Do You Really Believe" visited me. We were talking about how we often practice changing how we are looking at something and how that can create miracles in our lives by seeing what we aspire to as oppose to what we fear. What struck me in that moment was how we confuse thinking different thoughts and repeating our desired results with actually believing what we are saying. I realized it is far more important to let go of a limiting belief than to try to cover it up with it's opposite. When we are confronted with a huge challenge, thinking pleasant thoughts do not make the challenge go away. For me the opposite occurs. I get even more annoyed because thinking opposite thoughts argues with reality….this unpleasant thing is definitely happening. BUT when I observe my thoughts about what is occurring without adding my belief about the situation....THEN space can occur for a real solution. For example : I have just put my house on the market. The reality of the current housing market could easily cause me anxiety. I could run all the OH NO and WHAT IF I CAN'T SELL videos. Reality is, I have sold into many down markets before. I have no reason to believe this house won't sell. I have until August to move this house. Whatever happens, will certainly happen with or without my anxiety. I have no intention of spending the next 9 months stressing about something I have no reason to believe will occur. I do not think you can change your mind about something you believe to be true. I believe you can only examine WHAT you believe to be true and see if it is on fact true, or if your fear has created the present to be as miserable as your undesired outcome. Life can certainly be tough. I could use this moment to run fearful thoughts as easily as I can load a streaming video on my computer. BOTH have nothing to do with the moment. They are either completely fabricated, or a fantasy of our worst nightmare. Now that is a waste of valuable time. How does this relate to climbing the mountain? The more I climb, the easier it becomes. The more I practice observing the streaming video called my mind, the easier it is to tell fact from fantasy and the less I allow an unobserved mind to create an undesirable life. Hugs, Debra Debra can be reached via thoughts@edenandelle.com December Interview For this festive month we have the delightful honor to introduce you to a wonderful & intriguing life coach; her name Lydia Proschinger aka Serendipity Jane. Multi lingual (she speaks English, German and French fluently!), Lydia is able to immerse herself in the clients’ challenges and help them understand that they can overcome even the most undesirable outcomes. Lydia guides you in several different ways and shows her clients that they DO have power over their emotions, thoughts and beliefs, and, more importantly HOW one gets a hold of that power! For me personally, a woman who is selfless, truly cares about the people she works with and a extremely professional life coach. Lydia Proschinger Our interview took place on a day that was a national holiday and I got the opportunity to get to know Lydia, not only as a professional life coach, but also the woman behind the reason why she does the work she does. Her words were so inspiring that I wanted to share it in its’ entirety with all of you. Therefore we decided to provide you, our trusted readers, with an audio link so that you too can be inspired. Let your children watch tv, get yourself a drink, sit back, relax and listen as Lydia could be the answer to what you have been searching for. http://www8.zippyshare.com/v/42854181/file.html When you click on the above link you will be taken to a webpage from zippyshare. (see image below) To the right of the image you will see a section where it is written ‘You have requested the file’ named ‘serendipity_jane20081111 141203.mp3 . Just click on the download link, click save as, and enjoy! As you listen to the audio, and are intrigued by what you hear, we encourage you to visit Lydia Proschingers’ website www.life-procoaching.com or www.life-procoaching.com/blog/ To find out more about Serendipity Jane and her quest please visit www.serendipityjane.com Editors note : I don’t normally endorse any of the people I interview but I have come to know Lydia personally, having worked with her on an extremely challenging issue in my own life. I would just like to say that after only one session with Lydia, I felt so much better, it was incredible. Years of feeling a certain way were lifted off my shoulder like a huge pile of lumber I was carrying that now had fallen to the ground. Of course, I can’t say that it will happen that fast for everyone who works with Lydia, but in my humble opinion, if you really want to be able to let go of any or all limiting beliefs or you have certain issues that have been haunting you for years, then Lydia is the woman you need to talk to. Erotic Joy of the Month How to Give a Lap Dance~Sexy Lap Dance Tips 1. Get in the SEXY ZONE Prepare yourself to get into the sexy zone. Listen to your favorite sexy music, choose your favorite lingerie wear. It's all about you enjoying yourself, so think about what YOU love and enjoy. Even if he doesn't like 80s and your body loves it, he'll forget what he's listening to when you give him the lap dance of his life. If you have a favorite sexy song. Get it ready. Not sure what music to dance to? Sexy Lap Dance Music Picks~ www.exoticdancing-info.com 2. Command him to the Chair Lead Him Are you in a sweet mood today? Gently guide him to the chair and have him sit down and spread his knees apart. This will give you ample room when you crawl into his lap. Command Him Are you in a dominatrix mood? If you have hand cuffs or that Halloween police girl outfit use them. Have fun with it. Shove him into the chair, hand cuff his hands behind his back so he doesn't get to touch you during your lap dance session. Tell him "You're not going anywhere till I let you" or add in your own dirty talk "You've been such a bad boy today, you're going to get punished" 3. Make Him Obey If he tries to touch you move his hands away and shake your finger. No touching at this point. Tell him to sit put and be good. (That's right, he's your puppy now) 4. Arouse him from Far Away You can start 3 ft away from him and enjoy yourself in the music…remember when you were having fun slow dancing in the club, making seductive hip circles. Touch and caress yourself, play with your hair, let your fingers slide to your neck, caress your breast and love every curve of yourself. You LOVE your body. Of course give out that sexy smile and grin. The more you look like you're having fun, the bigger the turn on. (If you feel uncomfortable he will sense your uneasiness) If you're usually the shy girl, no worries we can turn you into a sex bomb in no time. 5. The Crawl~Come closer SLOWLY The Crawl- Slowly get on your knees and do some slow up and down hump moves, yes very sexy now. Then slowly crawl over to him towards his lap. 6. I am closer now...but the fun has just begun When you crawl up to him, spread his knees far apart. This will give you ample space to later step up to with a knee. Climb up to the chair where he is sitting so that one of your knees is in between his and the other is on the arm of the chair. You can adjust accordingly to how you best balance. Now the fun has just begun. 7. Just Miss Kiss Make another SLOW hip circle toward him, come close to his face and let your hair brush against his face. Approach as if you're going to kiss him and then NOT. This is the classic Just Miss Kiss-From How to Give a Lap Dance Guide Breathe in his ear so you can hear your every breath and your moans of enjoyment Do another big hip circle, this time slightly bend over so that your breast are just in front of his face 8. Boob Hovering Come closer and do another hip circle and this time rub your boobs in his face (HOTTT!!) Now he's squirming and wanting to get out of his chair to grab you…make sure he sits put. Because Ladies YOU are in control, no one moves till you allow it. 9. The Snake Slide Down Now that you are in a position that you have your boobs in front of his face. Slowly slide down so that your breasts rub against his chest and that you slowly slide to the ground. 10. Walk away with attitude Now turn around and push your butt out as you get up. You got it girl...you can walk away with attitude. Turn around and wink at him, or blow a kiss. Slap your ass, whichever is your style. Once you've given your first lap dance, you'll realize it's quite fun and easy to add your own variation. For more lap dance tips or visual aids on How to Give a Lap Dance Lap Dance see my site www.exoticdancing-info.com Written by Violet.
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